YES, two posts in one day…probably within the hour! haha. Its a slightly divergent topic so I thought I’d separate it.
The senior pastor at Bridges in Fremont gave a really good message about relationships. How are we treating others? What is God’s view on relationships? In Genesis 2:18, he says “It is not good for the man to be alone.” God created Eve to be a helpful suitor for Adam. From the very beginning, we were created with a need to connect with people. Life would suck if we were alone, and I’m not talking just about significant others, but friendships as well. But how are we treating others now?
Here’s five types of relationships we’ve probably approached at some point in our lives…
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The JAILHOUSE approach: Being in a relationship where you feel burdened, and want to escape from it.
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The CONVENIENCE STORE approach: Going to friends when it’s convenient and leave when satisfied.
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The EMERGENCY ROOM approach: When times are tough or you’re in a bit of crisis do you go to a friend for help.
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The NIGHT CLUB approach: To have as much fun as possible, getting the most satisfaction and pleasure out of the relationship.
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The BEAUTY SALON approach: Being in a relationship that boosts your own esteem, and makes us look good.
All of these approaches are motivated by human needs. And all of these needs fall short of fulfilling our most deep and intimate needs.
I learned that we all long for relationships, for deep intimate connections, but it is impossible without forgiveness. Colossians 3:13 says “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” In the end, we’re going to get disappointed with each other because we’re not perfect…infact, we’re sinful! 
This past year, I became frustrated with people a lot. I expected so many things, and didn’t understand why I never got the respect back. But I learned through Luke 10:27, to not seek love, but give love. Only through Christ, and those motivated by him, can I see this because Christ established a relationship with us out of true love.
yay! 
another something to dwell on…
